Additionally, LGBTQIA+ high schoolers are at increased risk for higher rates of physical and sexual dating violence compared to students who identify as heterosexual.

Teens affected by dating violence are more likely to experience:

• Depression
• Anxiety
• Aggression
• Alcoholism or drug abuse
• Eating disorders
• Thoughts of suicide

The best way to prevent TDV is to have honest conversations with our children about what healthy relationships look like. Teens who are experiencing TDV may feel ashamed, afraid or embarrassed to come forward about it. Talking about the risks of dating violence is an important first step in preventing it from happening. Teaching teens about what trust and respect looks like in relationships will build a foundation for healthy behavior.

If you or someone you know has experienced dating violence, help is available and recovery is possible. There are 31 organizations in New Mexico that provide domestic violence services at some level. The New Mexico Human Services Department, Behavioral Health Services Division (BHSD) can connect teens in need with help. They partner with many local agencies on the ground to provide services, such as group therapy and individual counseling for survivors of domestic violence or sexual assault. BHSD also has a new dedicated LGBTQIA+ outreach and awareness program.

Find immediate support for those affected by or causing dating violence at Treatment Connection: www.treatmentconnection.com.  This site enables those seeking mental health treatment for themselves or their loved ones to find local, state-vetted treatment providers.

For youth in New Mexico, help is available through #988, the new crisis lifeline number. Youth of any age can call, text or chat #988 to be connected to the support they need 24 hours a day, 365 days a year.

Marijuana Awareness Month

Marijuana is the most commonly used drug in the United States, especially for youth. Almost 28% of high school students in New Mexico report using marijuana. Studies suggest use in early youth can affect teen brain development—and may negatively affect decision-making. Heavy, regular (daily or almost daily) cannabis use among youth may make it harder for them to learn, retain memories and pay attention. Early youth marijuana use can be associated with:

• Increased school drop-out rates
• Increased risk for psychotic disorders in adulthood
• Increased risk for later depression
• Suicidal ideation or behavior